Christmas
Some days before Christmas, all the women
of the village start preparing for the big feast. The
preparations mainly include cleaning of the entire
house and the yard.
On Christmas day, people goes to church. After the
service they receive communion and then they exchange
wishes and kisses.
Thereafter, they return to their homes and the entire
family sits on the table for the traditional soup “avgolemoni”
(made with eggs, lemon and rice) or trachana (traditional
soup), in a pleasant environment.
New year’s day
At twelve o’clock on new year’s day, the housewives
break a plate outside the house. People go to church
to attend to the service and when it is finished they
exchange kisses and wishes.
The first day of the year, after the church, when
people return to their homes they traditionally step
in with their right foot. It is believed that this
brings good luck for the rest of the year.
They also play cards (Shemes, Poka, Poker) in coffee
shops and in different houses.
Lent Period
The Lent period begins on the Sunday of the Prodian
Son and continues till the Sunday of “Tyrofagos” (last
day of the Carnival).
Usually, during this period, a lot of people masqueraded
and went to friendly houses where they amused the owners.
A lot of families gathered in the coffee shops where
they had dinner, wine, they danced and then they put
swings for the young women.
Easter
Palm Sunday
On Palm Sunday, women took leaves from olive trees
to the church. The leaves would remain in the church
until Pentecost when they would be hallowed and taken
back home for the traditional “kapnisma” (literally
smoking). Specifically, the leaves from the olive tree
were put in the “kapnistiri” (earthen-plated vessel)
with cinder and used for the “kapnisma” of the houses
and people. This practice is considered as apostrophic
for the evil spirits and it survives to this day.
On Holy Thursday the villagers go
to church to attend to the service of the 12 Gospels
concerning the Passion of Christ, His Crucifixion and
His death.
The same night, a replica of the holy cross with Christ
on is set. On the right of the cross there is a replica
of Apostle John and on the left another replica of
Virgin Mary.
On Holy Friday young women chant the dirge (lamentation),
while three myrrh-bearing women strew the epitaph with
myrrh, aromas and flowers.
Some days before Easter the housewives bake rusks
and the famous “flaounes”. On Holy Saturday they paint
the eggs which they will clink after the Resurrection
Ceremony.
Resurrection
Around 11 pm, the bells toll merrily in order to invite
the Christians to the happiest service of the Christian
church.
Outside of the church there is a big fire, called
“Lampratzia” (eastern bonfire). At midnight the priest
says “ defte lavete fos ek tou anesperou fotos” (come
forward and receive light from the eternal light) and
comes out of the church with the lay clerks for the
Procession. People light their candles from the holy
light and they all go in the yard of the church for
the Resurrection Ceremony
After the Resurrection Ceremony the inhabitants of
the village receive communion and then they exchange
wishes and kisses.
Then, people return to their homes. They eat the traditional
soup “avgolemoni” (made with eggs, lemon and rice)
or trachana, flaounes and they clink the red eggs wishing
each other “Christos Anesti” (The Christ has risen)
“Alithos Anesti” (truly He is raised).
On Sunday, they make the traditional lamb on charcoals
and they celebrate the day with dance and songs.
In the afternoon, the Community Council organizes
some events (including traditional games) in the village’s
plaza. The events continue until Easter Tuesday.
TRADITIONAL WEDDING
“Proxenio” (match-making)
The matchmaker, a relative, or a close friend of the
bride’s family made the Proxenio”. A good groom was
considered a man, who was rich, from a good family
and diligent. If the groom came from another village,
the parents of the bride went to his village and
asked his fellow villagers for any information they
wanted to learn about him or his family. Most of
the times, the girl’s opinion was not taken into
consideration.
Betrothal (logiasma)
Close relatives such as the groom and bride’s godparents,
uncles and aunts, grandparents, brothers and sisters
and the priest of the village were invited in the
betrothal. The priest would prepare the prenup, which
had legal validity. In the prenup the parents noted
the marriage portion that they would give to their
children. After the betrothal, there was a big party
with plenty of food and songs.
Engagement”
The parents of the bridegroom went to the houses of
friends and relatives to invite them holding a “merreha”
(bottle where perfume was kept). Only some relatives
and close friends were invited in the engagement. The
rich people of the village used to invite a lot of
people.
During the engagement they exchanged handkerchiefs
and rings. The parents of the bridegroom gave them
animals such as goats, sheep and cows. They also gave
them textiles, kitchen equipment, equipment for the
mud oven and for the agricultural works. In older times
the house of the new couple was built by the groom.
Later on, the custom has changed and the parents of
the bride had the responsibility for the construction
of the house. The construction of the house was not
an easy job. They should find earth and straw and blend
them in order to create the adobes which would be the
basic materials for the construction of the house.
Preparations for the wedding
The preparation for the wedding started one month
before the wedding day. The friends and relatives of
the bridegroom washed
the sheep fleece, which would be used for the “filling”
of the bed. When they finished washing, the fleece
remained in the sun until it was completely dry.
The invitations were given from the bridegroom’s parents
with a special procedure. When they visited the houses
to give the invitations, they offered to the owners
a special kind of bread called “glistarka” and also
wine from a special wine-jar called “kolotzi”.
On the wedding day they took the “kolotzi” to the church
and after the wedding they offered wine to their guests.
They also offered another kind of bread called “koumoulla”.
Thereafter, the groom’s closest friends and his best
men danced holding on the same time the bed. When they
finished their dance it was the bridesmaids turn to
take it. Just before this dance, a young boy or girl
was put on the bed of the bridegroom. People believed
that if they put a boy on the bed, the first child
of the new couple would be a boy and if they put a
girl, then the couple would have a girl.
The wedding day
On Sunday morning the relatives of the couple prepared
the food. After the wedding and on the way to their
new home, the couple was blessed by the neighbors who
held “mereha” (bottle where they kept perfume) and
“kapnistiri”. Before the couple entered in their new
home, the bride should break a pomegranate on the right
corner of the door and the groom should kill a cock.
If both of them managed to do these two things, then
it was believed that the couple would live happily
ever after! If not, then their life together would
not be easy. In the house, where the friends and relatives
would come to give their wishes to the bridegroom,
they put a white sheet and in the middle they formed
a cross with their handkerchiefs. They also added colored
handkerchief that they used on their heads (these were
made by the women and they were called “manassa”).
Monday after the wedding
On Monday after the wedding day, the bridesmaid had
to make some special pies (“pittes”) and grape honey
and take them to the couple’s house. On the same
day the bride should let free two white pigeons.
Tuesday after the wedding day or antigamos
On Tuesday after the wedding day the relatives took
chicken from the fellow villagers, they killed them,
cooked them and ate them altogether during a big
party.
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